My biggest learning after about a year of working:
Most inter-personal misunderstandings/issues arise out of not what you say, but how you say it.
Obviously, such situations arise in cases of negative feedback or criticizing work/ideas etc. There are very few people have a skill of being able to communicate exactly what they disagree with or what they find bullshit without making it sound a caustic attack on the other person.
It's a good skill to have, me working on it :).
Most inter-personal misunderstandings/issues arise out of not what you say, but how you say it.
Obviously, such situations arise in cases of negative feedback or criticizing work/ideas etc. There are very few people have a skill of being able to communicate exactly what they disagree with or what they find bullshit without making it sound a caustic attack on the other person.
It's a good skill to have, me working on it :).
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